By The Tribute Plan Editorial Team · Reviewed June 2026
There are no words for the loss of a child, and no list can ease it. What music can do is hold a little of the love and grief that fill the room. The songs below are chosen gently and with care — from "Tears in Heaven," written by Eric Clapton after losing his young son, to "Forever Young," the soprano "Pie Jesu," and "Somewhere Over the Rainbow."
Please choose only what feels bearable to you. Some families want a song that lets everyone weep together; others prefer something hopeful and tender. Either is right. You may also lean on a trusted friend, your officiant, or a grief counselor as you decide.
When you're ready, preview the songs below and add the ones that feel right to a service playlist with our free Funeral Songs Picker. You can save it privately and share it only with those closest to you.
Somewhere Over the Rainbow / What a Wonderful World — Israel Kamakawiwoʻole (1993) · 3:33 · Folk, Peaceful, 80s–90s. IZ’s gentle ukulele medley; warm, hopeful, and widely loved.
Tears in Heaven — Eric Clapton (1992) · 4:33 · Rock, Sorrowful, 80s–90s. Written after Clapton lost his young son; profoundly tender.
I Hope You Dance — Lee Ann Womack (2000) · 4:50 · Country, Hopeful, 2000s. A parting blessing to keep living fully; uplifting for a celebration of life.
Danny Boy — Traditional Irish (1913) · 4:00 · Folk, Sorrowful, Pre-1960s. The classic Irish lament of farewell and longing to meet again.
Forever Young — Bob Dylan (1974) · 4:55 · Folk, Hopeful, 60s–70s. A blessing for a life; tender for someone young or young at heart.
Who You'd Be Today — Kenny Chesney (2005) · 3:15 · Country, Sorrowful, 2000s. Imagines the life a young person never got to live; often chosen for a life lost too soon.
Pie Jesu — Gabriel Fauré (1888) · 3:30 · Classical, Peaceful, Pre-1960s. A pure, prayerful soprano setting from the Requiem; often for a child or young person.
Frequently Asked Questions
What song is appropriate for a child’s funeral?
Gentle, loving choices include "Tears in Heaven" by Eric Clapton, "Pie Jesu," "Forever Young," and "Somewhere Over the Rainbow." Choose only what feels bearable; there is no expected or "correct" song.
Is it okay to keep the service very short?
Yes. Many families choose one or two songs and a brief service. Do whatever brings you and your family even a little comfort.
Where can I find support after the loss of a child?
Organizations like The Compassionate Friends offer support for bereaved families. Please consider reaching out to a counselor or trusted person as you plan.